Gearing up for an Arranged Marriage? Here’s 10 Things to Do to Win Her Heart! January 27, 2018 – Posted in: Blog, Wedding Inspirations – Tags:

In love marriages, bonding is easy, since you already know each other well; and are familiar with the other’s likes, dislikes and preferences. However, with arranged marriages, it can sometimes be challenging to win your would-be wife’s heart and bring her closer to you before you take the leap of faith.

But fret not. There are plenty of things that you can do to break the initial ice, and gain her affection for you. To make things simple for you, we’ve made a list of 10 such adorable, sweet and romantic gestures that can win the heart of your bride-to-be. Let’s dive right in…

10. Love Letters

You didn’t have a love marriage; that doesn’t mean you can’t write her love letters! Pen down things that you admire in her, or something special you observed in her during your meetings. You can make secret notes with the little things you like about her, and give these as a romantic gift for fiancé on the wedding day.

And by letters, we don’t necessarily mean the hand-written ones on the scented papers. Although, you are free to do that if you think your partner would love it, what we essentially mean here is taking time out to let her know how much she means to you through written words. They could be early morning text messages or a surprise in the middle of a working day. We’re pretty sure this would light her up and make her fall for you, even more!




9. Flowers & Chocolates

Who doesn’t love chocolates or flowers? They’re a classic gift for your female fiancé before wedding. And if they’re both together, then that’s even better. Send her flowers when she’s at work, or get them delivered to her home. It’ll definitely make her smile, and will also keep her thinking about you as she goes on with her day.


8. Jewellery Gifts

Jewellery makes a fantastic gift for your fiancé on her birthday, or even just as a special gift for bride from groom. Get her dazzling earrings, or a delicate bracelet with her name on it. Or opt for a pendant that’s engraved with something unique, such as her fingerprints. This is something she will cherish and flaunt for years.


7. Take Her Out

To get to know her better, you need to spend lots of quality time alone with her. Take her out to her favourite restaurant for a candle-light dinner, or a movie she’s looking forward to. If you want a romantic setting, take her for a walk on the beach or in the park; whatever makes her comfortable and lets her open up.


6. The Proposal

Another thing that’s often skipped in an arranged marriage! Well, every girl secretly dreams of a romantic proposal from her Prince Charming, so plan something cute and memorable. It could be just handing her a glass of champagne with a ring in it, or sending her on an elaborate treasure hunt, which ends with the proposal.




5. Singing & Dancing!

If you’re looking at ideas for gifts for the future wife on a wedding day, then don’t limit yourself to just material things. Most often, the things in which you put your efforts count more, so plan an epic choreographed a dance for her on the big day, or sing a song. A great surprise like this will definitely sweep her off her feet.


4. Engraved Wedding Ring

The wedding ring is a piece of jewellery that she’ll wear for the rest of her life, so why not give her a personalized wedding ring? There are a lot of options in gold and platinum that are available online, such as name rings and initial rings, as well as music rings, barcode rings and fingerprint rings. This is undoubtedly one of the best gifts for your future wife.


3. Spa & Beauty

Wedding planning and preparation can be quite stressful, so how about gifting her a relaxing spa treatment? She’ll be grateful for the gesture and will thank you for it. Another option is to gift her a beauty treatment that she wanted or planned to get. You can get her a nail art voucher, or maybe one for a special hair treatment.


2. Family Heirloom

If this question ‘what gift to buy for my wife’ still lingers in your mind then think: is there something that you already have? An item that’s treasured in your family and passed down along generations? Perhaps your grandmother’s ring or an antique musical instrument? A keepsake or family heirloom like that is a great gift for your fiancé as it would make her feel welcome in your family.


1. Take a Class Together

Another way to get closer to her is to take up a class with each other and learn something you both aren’t familiar with. It could be a cooking class for novice cooks, or a dance class if you want to both have fun shaking a leg together. This will bring you together in a fun, enjoyable way.

So, which one of the above ideas you like? Do let us know and also do not forget to share with us in your comments how your experience was! Also, have we missed out on an interesting idea? Let us know!

Congratulations on your wedding and all the best for an awesome journey together!!!

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